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i learned a lot today.
i learned that if we like someone, we need to accept who they are - past AND present. if their past is just too much to handle, then they are not worth it. if their present pisses you off too much, then they are not worth it either.
a lot of times, a person’s past is very hard to accept. of course there may be times when you think of their past, and you get sad or upset… but there’s really nothing we can do but to accept it… no one can turn back time, and no one can do anything now to erase what has already happened. all we can do is accept it.
But if it’s really that unacceptable that it is becoming a regular problem, then maybe the relationship needs to be reconsidered…
i also learned that guys and girls think really differently. guys may think “past is past. present is present. future is future.” but girls think “past makes the present, and the present influences the future.” i think it’s just something different between guys and girls..
i learned that people must be responsible for their own actions. Before doing something, you have to think of the consequences how or it may affect you in the future. Will it benefit you? Will it haunt you? Will it be a disadvantage for you? Or will there be no difference?
A lot of girls care about their boyfriend’s past… who they have been with; what they have done; where were they in what year… etc etc etc..
i know we cant change someone’s past to fit our satisfaction, so when i like someone, i will like them as a whole - including their past. I can’t change anything - he can’t change anything either.
But as for myself, I know that I will love my future husband so much that I won’t let him worry about it. I don’t want to do anything that he will be upset with
i dont want to do anything now that will make him mad in the future
i dont want to do anything now that will make him unhappy in the future
i dont want to do anything now that will make him sad in the future
i dont want him to have to worry about whom i have been with, what i have done, etc etc etc…
i want to be able to face him with a clean slate so that he knows that he is worth that much to me, that i have been thinking about him and looking out for him today already.
even if he can’t do the same for me, that’s fine. i know i cant do anything.
but i want myself to be the best that i can be for him.
so the past does matter, and so do the choices we make today
a good past and a good present will promise a great future.
thats how much i want him to know that i love him.
secret garden is the best drama everrr<3
i’m so sad it’s over though ): the ending was so cute and sad.. sighsighsigh
Is it true that someone yelled “10 points to Gryffindor” after you answered a question correctly in a lecture hall at Brown, where you’re a sophomore? “No. Actually, I’m really glad that he asked. That has never happened to me. Maybe someone said it under their breath, but I’ve never, ever had anyone say that when I’ve been in a class.”
aww i kinda wish that this really happened ): hahaha
she’s soso pretty<333
day uno
Day One: Ten Seven things you want to say to ten different people right now.
i dont know what else to say..
1. i hate how ur so negative about everything.. it’s so hard trying to deal with it sometimes but oh well
2. liar…. but oh well, i guess it’s for the best! goodbye
3. i don’t know what to say to you.. or i just don’t know how to say it
4. i admire you so much on how you’re such a good person and always being positive! so glad to have you in my life<3
5. why’d you change so much!
6. you’re kinda weird.. but it’s ok i accept you for who you are LOL
7. plz just stick to one! stop moving on so quicklyyyy
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Day One: Ten things you want to say to ten different people right now.
Day Two: Nine things about yourself.
Day Three: Eight ways to win your heart.
Day Four: Seven things that cross your mind a lot.
Day Five: Six things you wish you’d never done.
Day Six: Five people who mean a lot (in no order whatsoever)
Day Seven: Four turn offs.
Day Eight: Three turn ons.
Day Nine: Two smileys that describe your life right now.
Day Ten: One confession.
nothing else to do..
